Why is the human heart so unstable? A surprising explanation in the Hadith of the Prophet (peace be upon him)!


Published: 03:28 25 September 2025
The human heart is very mysterious and constantly changing. One day we feel deep love for a person or object, but over time that love can fade. Sometimes for a specific reason, sometimes for no reason. Sometimes our heart is unnecessarily attracted to someone, and sometimes that attraction suddenly disappears.
This change is natural for both men and women. As the popular saying goes, ‘A woman’s heart is the treasure of a thousand years of study’, similarly this mystery is not only for women, this change can be observed in the hearts of men as well.
The human heart is mysterious and changing. One day a deep love for someone arises, and again within a short time that feeling fades. This change is natural for both men and women.
In Islam, the human heart is called ‘kalb’, which means to turn or change quickly. The Prophet (peace be upon him) said, “The example of the human heart is like a feather hanging from a tree branch, which sways to and fro in the wind.” (Musnad Ahmad, Hadith: 17,813)
Another Hadith states, “The heart of the son of Adam changes faster than a pot of boiling water.” (Sunan Ibn Majah, Hadith: 1,716)
According to experts, the human heart changes repeatedly due to the demands of life, circumstances, emotions, and experiences. Some come into life, and then leave due to the needs of time. The Quran says, “The life of this world is only play and amusement, and the Hereafter is better.” (Surah An’am, Verse: 32)
From a religious perspective, this change teaches us that humans can never be a permanent trust. Only Allah is our place of trust. He says, “Call upon Me, and I will respond to your call.” (Surah Mumin, verse: 60)
Analysts believe that while human hearts change as a natural part of life, a relationship with Allah is the source of lasting peace and stability.
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